1/21/2011 Dear Archbishop... we met on 6 29 2008, I handed you medical proof of real time of death of John Paul II, as I gave to Dziwisz, it was 9:15! I have pic with Dziwisz & you! Me & my family & friends sent you bunch of emails in regards to this groing problem! Now that you remember me, Im writign about huge problem with Catholic cemeteries, there are many I need to address when we meet. But right now I have to mention Mausuleums. My grandmother was buried on January 5. I wish she died that day, so she could see new year. It's very hard for me, especially when catholic mausuleums dont even allow religions objects on the crypt, it adds to pain. They come up with BS excuses like its destroying "decorum & beauty" of the mausuleum. But that is total lie. Because there is nothing on those cryots, all the graves are extremelly boring, monotony. We wanted to paste Sr. Faustyna's painting, family emblem! Keep in mind we should have that absolute right as we started her Mercy mission in 1991 & most churches now carry that painting, we were doing this 9 years before she was canonized. I have nuns who can back my story. Fr. Osuch also agrees that picture should go there. Now, people like Roman who is in charge of the cemeteries will tell you, that cant be done because of the above idiotic reasons. But he also added insult to injury! He said, then other people would demand their photos to be placed on their crypts. THAT IS THE INSULT TO INJURY WHEN HE SAID: "PEOPLE CAN PUT PICS OF THEIR PETS THEN" HECK NO, I NEVER SAID ANY ANIMALS, ONLY CHRISTIANS SYMBOLS FAMILY PREFERS. And not many will do, especially when years go by. He is using that decorum empty excuse to express his points. His makes no sense at all. Dignity cemeteries allow you to paste whatever you desire. Also at catholic cemeteries, flowers are not even allowed in chapel, imagine that! Im speechless! Looking forward talking to you in person asap! You need to change this insane rules. People are not happy with catholicism in general, you are losing members, dont wonder y?! My grandmother, servent of God, Wanda Nida, deserves that emblem & so do we. If we put something there, they will take it down & destroy crypt's pristine image. The bronze lettering they put dont even properly shine at All Saints, not new! These things can not be excused! So many mistakes have been committed by Archdiocese cemeteries, I dont know where to start. It's time we talk! Same of emblem included for your safekeep! Very seriously, Very sincerely: Jan Lupco p.s. I met Cardinal Bernardin, read his last book, was at his funeral. When I spoke to him at St. Hyacinth he smiled, he answered my question without hesitation, knowing there are people in line waiting to greet him!